Thursday, November 18, 2010

Being in Twenties something

Its is when you stop going with the crowd and starat realizing that there are many things about yourself that you din't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two,but then get scares because you barely know where you are now.

You start realizing that people are selfish and that,maybe,those friends you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met,and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What we dont recognize is that they are realizing that roo and aren't really cold,catty,mean and insincere,but that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job....it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the botton and that scares you.

Your opinions have gotten stronger.You see what others are doing and find yourself judeging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of whats acceptable and what isn't.One minute you are insecure and then the next secure.

You laugh and cry with the greatest force in your life.You feel alone and scared and confused.Suddenly,change is the enemy and you try and climb on the past with dear life,but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do damage to you. or you lie in bed and wonder why can't meet someone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you that you aren't a bad person.You want to settle for good because all of a sudden that becaomes top priority.Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.You begin to think a companion for life is better that hundred in the shack and for once you would not mind standing tall for someone which otherwise you had never thought of until now.You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, And talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans,Money the furture and making a life for yourself...and while winning the race would be great. Right now you'd just like to be a contender!

What you may not realize that everyone reading this relates to this. We are in our best times and our worst of times,Trying hard as we can to figure this whole thing out. Lets Share all our thoughts with our Twenties Something Friends..maybe it will help someone like they aren't alone in their state of confusion..

We call it "The Quater Life Crisis"...lets face it guys..Cheers


10 comments:

  1. That was a fantastic read and as you have correctly stated, i could so relate to all of it. I think its not just about twenty somethings.. but the other side of 25 which is too scary. Being here, now, i know life is a piece of cake without icing and i am damn confused which one i want, whether i want or not and the rest of the blah!

    Great job buddy!! Kp writing :)

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  2. Dude, I did not really know this quality of yours...That's a real good one and a realistic one. You have put in words the confusion, the dilemma and the dicy state of ones mind in this age...Appreciate you writing this...keep writing on and on...!!!!!!!!!

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  3. 3 Cheers to the Quarter Life Crisis!
    The whole cycle of speculations, make ups, break ups, expectations, aspirations have made us goin us like limited in our outlook to the life!
    We all need to outgrow this sometime or other. Sooner the better :)

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  5. awesome self relating words..this shows we all sailing in the same cruise of life..buh just the ports to reach are differnt..
    we twenties have mammoths to confront ahead of us..with new inspections and realisation of life deep within..and such art of words is an excellant inspiration to strive in jaunty...

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  6. @richa: Thanks a lot..hope you keep reading and i keep following your blog as well..tats a deal that we shud strike :)
    @srishti assaye: Thanks a lot for your kind appreciative words..Keep reading and do start a blog..trust me it will help in these crisis ridden situation :P

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  7. i guess everybody wud b able to relate to dis..nicely expressed...gives me a sigh of relief realising d fact dat i'm not d only one engulfed in d pandemonium of life..

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  8. @udit: you are not alone, even god made Doppelgänger's..because he dint want us alone :)

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  9. being 20 something is fabulous thing that can happen. you are not treated as a kid and you are not treated as mature... you are somewhere in between and thus, you experience things differently and learn them the same way. Fiasco (related to relationship, career.. blah and blah)) is part of life but @ 20 something you carry guts to fight it out and walk ahead. and this is the best part...
    nicely expressed.. and this is something people can relate to. keep up the work. cheers!!

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